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Ali Mortimer - the JOY Coach Season 7 Episode 20

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This week Ali steps away from the 'Rebel' interview series to share something raw and real. A conversation with a Brilliance client about her fear of confrontation. A near miss on the motorway. A hard conversation . And three new JOY codes that came out of all of it.

In this episode:

  • Why so many women, especially women who are married, running businesses or raising children, spend their energy keeping the peace around them, only to end up at war within themselves
  • Using Human Design to understand why conflict lands so hard for some of us (the undefined solar plexus, explained through the bubble analogy)
  • The story: a scorching Friday drive home, a property handover crisis, a near collision with a lorry, and the flood of feeling that followed
  • Code 1: comparison isn't always the thief of joy, sometimes it shows you exactly what you want more of
  • Code 2: why asking for space before a hard conversation isn't avoidance, it's respect
  • Code 3: confrontation only exists when you bring provocation to the table. Bring calm instead, and there's just conversation
  • The sailor and the harbour: why coming to rest after high seas can feel harder than the storm itself, and why that's not a sign anything's wrong
  • What happened when Ali and James finally had the conversation, and the bigger realisation waiting on the other side of it

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Coming next week: part two of the mini series. Ali takes you through her own dreaming and blueprinting process, ahead of the Lionsgate portal on 8/8.

The answer is always joy. Love always, Ali x

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